Thursday Thoughts
Driving in to work this morning I caught myself getting mad
at this driver cutting ahead of traffic. Then I got upset at
myself for getting angry. I'm trying to take the art of
driving less seriously and not get so upset if someone else
just has to be a selfish asshole and abuse the rules of the
road. There is nothing I'm going to do that will change these
abusers minds or make them stop taking advantage of those who
are following the driving rules, so why worry about it. But I
still can't help getting a little pissed at them.
This morning's instance has a slightly different moral. It
occurred right by the parking garage I use downtown. It's a
place where two lanes merge into one that has to make a
right hand turn. Typically those who use the right lane only
use it to enter the parking garage
Beforethe right hand turn. Those who need to go around the building
wait patiently in the left hand lane leaving the right side
open for those who need to get into the first garage. But it
is still technically within the rules of the road to zoom on
ahead in the right hand lane and then merge at the last
minute before making the right hand turn. Keeping it open is
just a nicety we drivers extend to each other during the
morning drive.
So this morning I see someone take advantage of this nicety
and zoom up the right hand lane to cut in. At first it upsets
me. I wonder what gives them the right. But then I catch
myself and admit she's still following the rules of the road.
All she's really doing is cancelling out our nicety which she
is not obliged to obey at all.
Still, I can't help wish that more people would offer up
these little moments of niceness. They make the day so much
more pleasant.